by Sidney S. Stark “Patience is a virtue; catch it if you can…” My grandmother would often recite that adage to me at the times I was least likely to be virtuous. Then she would usually finish it with, “seldom found in woman; never found in man” and she’d chuckle at her own private joke.… Continue Reading
Mollie
“I have to dump you at the store,” was how my mother referred to dropping me off at my grandmother’s store. Perhaps this was my mother’s way of teaching me irony or a way to verbalize her guilt in having a passion for her career. The irony was that I loved being dumped. The “store,”… Continue Reading
Sensitivity
by Sidney S. Stark Imagination is a miraculous creature spawned of spiritual need and creative deprivation; or so Cousin Kate believes according to one of her early interviews with a reporter from Opera News Magazine. She told him that growing up on the mud flats of Maine forced the birth of her artistic temperament. Maybe… Continue Reading
Self-Indulgence
by Sidney S. Stark Recently my friend Sam made a horrendous mistake. Sam (short for Samantha) is a writer I met at the Southampton Writers’ Conference in 2009. She was in my memoir workshop and we became buddies almost instantaneously. Sam wrote the funniest work of any of the ten participants in that class. As… Continue Reading
No Need for Fences
by Sidney S. Stark “It’s interesting about creative projects – it’s easy to assume that creativity is something that comes from an individual, but often I can do something creative only because I know the right person with whom to collaborate.”* *Gretchen Rubin: from The Happiness Project blog April 20, 2010. The derivation of the… Continue Reading
The Eye of the Beholder
by Sidney S. Stark “Don’t see me, don’t see me!” begged the little girl as she clung to my hand and desperately tried to hide behind me when we walked down the street. She meant, “Don’t pay attention to me,” of course. Her gossamer pink fairy costume and shimmering silver crown of stars perched on… Continue Reading