Everyday Living

Everyday Living

“The pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. The optimist sees opportunity in every difficulty.” – Winston Churchill

I have a number of friends who are writers, and a small number of those who are historians by profession. It’s no surprise, then, that they’ve been writing a lot lately about authoritarian movements and what we can learn from them. I’m always struck by how stunned they (and we) are to find ourselves at this turning point in the world’s best-known and most admired modern democracy. Yet with all the angst and gnashing of teeth, none of them seem to get past the questions about this new political construct and certainly offer no answers. I suppose it’s because we don’t know where we and our government are going. And I also suppose we’re not going to know that for quite a long time. Continue Reading

“Frankly, My Dear, I Don’t Give a Damn!”

“Frankly, My Dear, I Don’t Give a Damn!”

“Life’s under no obligation to give us what we expect.”~ Margaret Mitchell from Gone with the Wind. The ominously memorable line from the Hollywood version of ‘Gone with the Wind’ placed its male protagonist, Rhett Butler in an unforgettable scene. How unthinkable it was that anyone could deliver such a blatantly unsympathetic line to the… Continue Reading

Over the Top!

Over the Top!

Tyranny is the deliberate removal of nuance—Albert Maysles I’m often intrigued by the derivation of unusual expressions that have become common in our contemporary speech. I remember being amazed at learning where ‘a wet blanket’ came from, which I’ll leave up to you to search out for yourself. You have AI and Google now, neither… Continue Reading

In Plain Sight ~ the ubiquitous ‘need to know’

In Plain Sight ~ the ubiquitous ‘need to know’

“Family patterns—like family secrets—repeat themselves.” ~ Iyanla Vanzant There has been a rash of books lately on the topic of family secrets. Why? Your guess is as good as mine, but I’m sure part of it has to do with the fact that children weren’t included in a lot of family news when I was… Continue Reading