Category Archives: Memoir

Defining Line

Oasis_in_LibyaIt’s a seductive idea, that there could be a ‘line in the sand’ marking an absolute transition from one thing to another. I suppose it’s the absoluteness that’s appealing in a world many have come to think of as murky and ambiguous. I was reminded of the power of that need for definition recently when we were interviewing new candidates for our writing group. We’re finishing Year Five since its birth, and the changes have been rife. Over this period the group has morphed into something so precisely perfect for the needs of its constituents, that it literally takes my breath away every time we meet. We’ve turned the writing group into an art form itself—something I sensed was happening a year ago as we got closer to the current formation, but now know to be a ‘fait accompli’.

Like all healthy organisms our writing group has changed continuously, adapting to the movement of participants in and out, as well as the burgeoning skills of the writers it supports. We’ve all learned so much and improved so inexorably that transition to a new state of being was a foregone conclusion. The only thing that hasn’t changed is the structure; the fact that we might all work in different genres at a given time and submit works of differing length, sometimes without linear progression, from one session to another. This concoction caused the librarian at the NY Society Library to label the group, ‘mixed’ (the only one of its kind) which quickly became ‘mixed-up’ in the minds of other writers in other groups.

It’s created a very fine filter when we’re searching for new members (or they’re searching for us), but reminds me of my former Yoga teacher’s criteria for participation in her classes, by invitation only. I was worried about being kicked out of the class as I was so new to that form of exercise, but it turned out our appropriateness was judged by fitness level, not familiarity with Yoga. That’s also true for our writing group. Membership is grounded in the commitment to the craft, not the specific output of the writer. I felt instinctively that was right five years ago when we began, but sometimes it takes experience to corroborate and reinforce certain truths. It’s been a pleasure to let the passion for writing define the curriculum.

But doesn’t that get messy when fiction and non-fiction are ‘mixed up’ together? Do memoirs, biographies, novels, personal essays and short stories have any clear way to work together? Can we, their authors, work together? Certainly we can, just as a yoga class of physically fit athletes can work together whether they know a ‘sun salutation’ from a ‘dead lift’.

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Welcoming Launch

by Sidney S. Stark You can undoubtedly feel the liberation in this blog’s title: The UnBlocked! Writer.  It’s like a lungful of air. The disruption of the flow of something, whether it’s the movement forward of a football on a playing field or a thought that gets stopped dead in its tracks inhibits us in… Continue Reading